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Hi Guys, I'm visiting Santander shortly, and I've had my strong B1-level Spanish described as a "superpower" when it's used in that city (not literally, of course).

I learnt South American Spanish, as I was dating a lovely girl from Argentina. I didn't learn "Rioplatense Spanish", as it's called, just standard Colombian/Mexican Spanish. I wanted to talk to my partner's lovely grandparents, so learning was essential for me.

Considering I'm a middle-aged Brit, how will my B1 level be viewed by locals, compared to the vast majority of Brits who simply don't even try to learn? Will I enjoy my stay there with that Spanish level? Are those who make an effort treated differently?

Thanks

I'm a recently out bisexual guy (50) about to go to my first bi group meeting in Birmingham, UK. The meeting is in a known safe space in our city. I'm tired of living a lie and don't want to pretend anymore. It's mentally exhausting and I'm just been so unhappy living like this.

I've known for years that I'm bi, but homophobia at work and in my social circle kept me from coming out. I'm a bit feminine and sometimes people think I'm actually gay. I've simply denied it in the past and said I'm straight.

I like to think I'm kind, confident and good with people, having worked with the public as a city bus driver for many years, with very few complaints against me. I'm hoping to make good friends for giving and recieving emotional support.

Any advice or tips please? My nerves are getting the better of me at the moment. DM is ok, just please be respectful. Thanks xx