Help !
Posting on behalf of my friend .
I (30F) had been seeing someone (33M) for a few months, and we decided to take our first trip together.
During the trip, I realized we weren’t as compatible as I had thought. Towards the end of the trip, I told him I didn’t think we were a good match. We ended up having an argument, and I said that I had lived a very different life and had different experiences, which I realize may have hurt him.
After the argument, he repeatedly asked me to come eat because neither of us had eaten anything. I refused because I was emotionally drained, upset, and just wanted to sleep.
The next morning, we had a bus to catch. We didn’t speak at all. He picked up his bag, left without saying anything, and deleted the bus tickets from our WhatsApp chat. I was shocked and panicked because I still had to figure out how to board the bus with my luggage. I eventually managed to do it, and when I got on, he was already seated. We didn’t acknowledge each other for the rest of the journey.
I’m curious how others would view this situation. Was I wrong in how I communicated my feelings? Was his reaction understandable, or did deleting the tickets and leaving without a word cross a line? I genuinely want unbiased opinions from both perspectives.