u/Secure-Lawfulness441

My boyfriend drove my car into a pole, on my birthday
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My boyfriend drove my car into a pole, on my birthday

I’m wondering if it’s worth going through my insurance or pay out of pocket. I can’t open my driver door without the door making a scary popping noise. I’m a 28 year old woman and afraid to consult my father so any fatherly advice would be super appreciated. Should I have him file the claim using his insurance?