u/SemiAutoEmi

So I've been thinking about it for a while and I'm attached to the name Cassian, yes from ANDOR, I feel like if you detached it from the character it is a fairly neutral name, maybe masculine leaning. And in the context of the show I like it as I can relate to the character slowly finding himself etc etc.

Looking into the entomology of it, Cassian has some Irish roots like me and compliments my last name.

I want to know people's thoughts on this, is it too masculine? Is it too rooted in pop culture now?

Hey I'm amab non-binary, been on E a year, I'm at the point in my transition where I'm uncomfortable going into men's toilets, I don't really feel safe there. But I'm admittedly scared of using women's toilets, especially now with the current government rulings and general attitude towards trans people. I'm terrified of getting clocked and confronted if I were to use female spaces. I have a deep voice and feel like I still look fairly masculine despite my androgynous fits. A load of my female friends have said I should just use the ladies rooms and that no one cares but I can't get over it.

Any advice? Thanks