u/Sensitive_Chart9288

Anyone else have a hard time “coparenting” with someone who just seems to like really dislike you and it just bothers you that like this person has seen you pregnant and give birth and in some of the most vulnerable times in your life and you share a child with this person and they just like teach you like worse than they would treat a stranger and it’s just constant icky feeling and it’s tough because I have 50-50 custody and it’s a 223 schedule with my two-year-old who I absolutely adore, but I have to deal with this person like every couple days and while he doesn’t like do anything terrible it’s just that feeling that this person really like hates you and just wouldn’t even really care if you dropped dead is just uncomfortable to deal with all the time I don’t know how to explain it really and sometimes it’s just like a crash of sadness that comes over me when I think about it or after having to do it forever and it’s just like punch in the stomach feeling?

I got my hair cut a month ago only wanted a trim because I been dying my hair dark kind of a lot because it matches my eyebrows better and was sick of the red henna look and the henna seems impossible to get out well th lady somehow convinced me to get some layers idk why I agreed I was thinking fave framing layers like I usually get and no she just chopped the back I HATE it.. I got blended a couple weeks later but I still hate the layers my hair always has grown slowly and a couple years ago I been really taking a conscious effort to actually have long hair for once and i was sad to lose more length tha I really needed/wanted now I feel like it just looks scraggly at the ends and I hate it I want it all one length but scared to chop it all one length because of how slow it grows and also hate how my hair is all scraggly and ugly now this last month has just been going so slow and i actually liked my hair before this even though it wasn’t perfect now I hate it…

Coparenting is rough

Layers at bottom of hair