u/Serious-Tonight-3172

I am pretty much wet in my underwear all day. I have no clue why. When I’m with my boyfriend I actually get so wet you can see it soaking on the OUTSIDE OF MY PANTS. I have no unusual discharge or weird smells at all it’s just clear fluid. Is there like a supplement I can do to help with this? Or anything? When I’m not turned on my underwear is still wet but when I’m with my boyfriend and turned on it gets suuuper bad. I have had an IUD for the past 3 years so could that be a factor? This is something new within the past few months and I wasn’t always like this

As a small child, after I do something small that would upset her, (ex. Talking to her while she’s on the phone because I wanted her attention) she’d express her hatred towards me and it would make me cry. I would think she hated me. Then afterwards she says “I don’t hate you I hate your actions” which was confusing for me as a kid.

Is this a BPD thing? Is it verbally abusive? Or is this a usual thing parents say to their kids. I can’t tell what’s normal and what’s not anymore

I posted in this subreddit a while back talking about how I’m going to buy my own groceries and stuff and essentially become financially independent from my parents. With that, my mother has had behavior to try and make me say something but it’s actually exactly what I want.

For starters. Buying my own groceries. I put it in a mini fridge that’s mine. In retaliation, my mother bought a whole new fridge and freezer set and put it in the garage and she’s like this is my food. Like ok good lmao that’s exactly what I want. We now have 3 goddamn fridges and freezers in my house 😂

Celebrating my birthday. My mother didn’t say happy birthday or get me anything at all expecting me to say something. But that’s exactly what I want. So she can no longer say she buys me stuff and use it against me in the future.

Paying for my own gym membership. Now she’s building an at home gym just for herself. Like ok I don’t wanna touch it that’s all yours boo.

This is only the beginning she’s definitely trying to get me to say something but little does she know this is exactly what I want. Living our own separate lives in the same house like we’re not even with eachother.

My mother is extremely messy and disorganized. She has HER shit alllll over the counters and kitchen.

ITS HER SHIT AND THEY BLAME ME FOR MAKING A MESS WHEN NONE OF IT IS MINE?! But when I point that out to her that it’s HER stuff she gets soooo pissed off at me? I say “name one thing that’s mine” and oh no category 5 hurricane headed straight for me

Or or when I make myself some dinner and leave the utensils I used to cook out WHILE IM EATING, she’ll come downstairs and fucking complain. Like I’m hungry as fuck and I ALWAYS clean up after myself when I’m done

I legit don’t know what to do. Like what the fuck

Ok um wow. Today was the first day of trauma therapy for me and it was very hard. I have a lot to unpack from my childhood.

As soon as I started crying I forgot everything and my mind went blank. All those horrible things my mother did was just gone from my mind.

I really need the help in processing and I know a lot of you in this sub have gone through therapy because of borderline parents. What did you do to realllyyyy process everything? It’s a very hard thing for me to do as I suppress anything. Any advice helps