u/Several-Avocado-344

There's this guy who i was mates with from year 1 to 9, in that time he gave no indication of being gay or just being into guys at all. We drifted apart a bit and pretty much stopped talking or texting in year 10 and 11 and we finished school a few weeks ago so ive not seen him in a while. Ive had a crush on him for a while and this morning I decided to tell him, but he's left me on read and idk what to do. Any advice or anything anyone has to say helps.

What do u all think of ppl, especially straight ppl, using 'gay' as an insult? Like "that's so gay" or "you're so gay" like i was drawing on my whiteboard in class one day and a kid went "that's gay af" like what?? Also young ppl thinking being gay is a bad thing, if I wanna do stuff with boys, ill do that. Just curious of your opinions.

Ive been talking to a 'girl' for a while and we were gonna hang out just as friends but I actually started to develop rlly strong feelings for her and i rlly rlly nervously asked if we can make our hang out, a date, and she said yes and honestly im so so so exited. So yeah ive failed the 'boykisser' community but successfully ig :3