u/SewingClouds

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Suspended from Zelle

Last Sunday I got a transaction from someone I don’t know. I didn’t even noticed since I was traveling a lot and didn’t check my messages. When I tried using my Zelle yesterday I realized it was blocked for security reasons. I called my bank today and they said that person reported me as a scammer. Is there anything I can do about it? I told them I could give the money back but I don’t know how since I don’t know that person or have any information just their name that is showing on the message. I don’t know why this could have happened probably he got the wrong number? And decided to report me? I didn’t get any call from the sender either.

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u/SewingClouds — 6 days ago

[l] Second breast tumor, feeling really unlucky rn

For some context:
Breast cancer runs in my mom’s side of the family. My gramma is the only woman who hasn’t suffer cancer in her family line. My mom had breast cancer for 8 years. Whenever they tried to kill it would come back stronger, she went thru it 3 times before passing away. Since I was a teen my mom taught me how to do a self exam because she wanted me to be prepared if something happened. Same year she passed away I found my first tumor on my right breast, grew really really fast. Biopsy came back negative for cancer so I really thought I defeated my family history. Yesterday it was Mother’s Day I wasn’t expecting to find another tumor on my left breast. It is way bigger than the other one, kind of makes my breast heavier, skin feels different and looks different too, even compared to the breast that has the first tumor it looks worse. So being really honest I wasn’t even scared, I just accepted my fate and got really mad about it because it didn’t seem fair to me. I’m not worried but I’m feeling unlucky and it makes me feel like I cannot move on from what happened to my mom, an 8 year nightmare that never seemed to end. Need some advice even if it is realistic, I know for sure this is way different from the first one and what keeps me awake at night is that the first time I was so scared I couldn’t even breathe in the nights but rn it’s feeling really heavy, I just feel like it is unfair, and that I’m being punished for something cause I was just starting to get out of that nightmare again and then this happens. I just really hope that I can get over this, I don’t care if it’s cancer or not I just want to end this, feel like it will find me someday and I really hope it does before I have kids so they don’t have to suffer like I did but at the same time I wish I could just skip this whole situation.

Thank you in advance. Sorry for the bad grammar, it is not my first language.

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u/SewingClouds — 10 days ago