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Today my pull up leaked in public for the first time—seems like Goodnites are no longer cutting it for my daytime use. I’m not really interested in a higher duty pull up, as my build isn’t super conducive to their fit. The Goodnites worked okay for a while I think because they were designed for kids and I have super skinny legs, but I don’t want to have to think about leaks anymore. I also like that the tabbed diapers are easier to change in public.

I do make it to the restroom about ~60% of the time, so I’d prefer something with hook and loop tapes so I can remove it and reuse it. I also would like cloth backed for the discretion. I’ve been wearing my night diaper (Megamax) since the incident, but both the diaper and the tapes are just so loud.

Are there any cloth backed hook and loop diapers available? I can’t find any on northshore and the incontrol ones don’t come in small. I saw that rearz makes some but I’d really like to avoid the prints if possible.

Hi all,

I am a graduate student who recently began having daytime issues and I’m wondering if anyone can shed some light on how accommodations work at school. My doctor has given me a note saying I require frequent restroom breaks, but I’m in the process of having that amended to include allowing me to bring a bag to the restroom with changing supplies. Obviously this isn’t necessary day to day, but my concern is exam season. I assume the school will take issue with allowing me to bring a bag to the restroom during a test unless someone checks it. I really don’t like the idea of all of my professors seeing my diapers and knowing about my issues.

I’m not 100% sure I’ll even need to change, as an exam is only a few hours so I’m contemplating not even requesting an accommodation. I recognize it’s much wiser to be prepared and not leak all over the place if the need arises. But I also don’t want to show a bunch of strangers this super personal thing for nothing if I don’t have to.

So, to those that have received accommodations to bring a bag to the restroom during exams, how does it work logistically? How many people have to learn of my issue so I can avoid leaking during a test?

Hi all!

So I (24M) typically wear Goodnites for my bedwetting, but I recently got some Northshore Megamax because I’ve been having to wear 24/7 and figured it might be better to have something more absorbent at night to keep the moisture off of me and prevent any rashes. I just ran out of Goodnites today so I was planning on just using the megamaxs until I get around to going to the store, but man these things are HUGE and super crinkly. Do any of you guys wear these during the day? Do people notice them? I feel like they’re basically a billboard that says I’m wearing a diaper but I can’t tell if I’m just in my own head. The crinkling is definitely quieter in jeans, but still. Idk if it’s relevant, but I’m 6 foot 1 and only 140lbs so I’m very skinny and I feel like the bulge and waddling effect is pretty noticeable.