r/adultdiapers

I’ve been wanting to try diapers and I have some kinda like pull ups for my period and I’m scared someone will find out…what should I do??

I prefer to wash the reusables as their own laundry load. Because of that the (minimally) used ones sit stored for a few days until I’m ready to wash them all. Am I harming these, making them “wait?” Any suggestions on their waiting-to-wash-them care? Thanks

Has anybody tried the Nateen Ultra Combi? I see they are about the same price as what I’ve used previously (Seni Super Quattro, and Sunkiss Trust Plus overnight)
Whats your take?

I wear Betterdry at night, with a PROTECbreif over the top for leak protection. This morning when I went to change in the bathroom, the diaper split wide open as soon as I removed the cover. It was as though someone sliced it down the middle from the crotch to nearly the back waistband.

Damp fluff and polymer fell out all over the floor, fortunately missing the bath mat. It was a mess and an ordeal to clean up.

I'm not sure what I'm hoping for from this post. Just wanted to warn other people I guess, or document this issue. Hoping this was a one off as I'm a consistent Betterdry user and haven't had this happen before. I've just seen others complain recently about a stop in quality and I'm hoping this isn't the first sign for me as well.

Hello I'm a 18 male looking for a female in Canada or northern states. my problem is that i wear goodnites and other protection to bed at night and I was woundering how your partner is with the bedwetting or how they supported you or if they also deal with it?

Full disclosure upfront: I work in marketing for an Australian incontinence brand (Bestiee), so take this with whatever grain of salt makes sense — I'm not here to sell anything, just genuinely want to hear from people who actually deal with this daily.

One thing that's struck me building this brand is how much of the incontinence product category still talks to one specific customer — usually framed as "elderly," clinical packaging, hospital-adjacent branding — even though incontinence shows up for way more people than that: postpartum, athletes, people on certain medications, folks with chronic conditions, etc.

So I wanted to ask this community directly rather than guess:

- What's the biggest annoyance with adult diapers / incontinence pull-ups you've tried? (fit, absorbency, noise, visibility under clothes, skin irritation, cost — anything)
- Is there anything you wish a brand would just... say out loud, instead of dancing around with clinical language?
- For people managing this for a family member — what do you wish suppliers understood better?

Not trying to pitch anything here, genuinely trying to learn from people who deal with this reality every day rather than just what a lab report tells us. Happy to share what we've learned too if people are interested, but mostly just want to listen.

I have urinary incontinence, and I also have extremely irritable skin on my legs and groin. Most diapers are like sand paper on my skin and it’s brutal.

What adult diaper has the absolute softest interior. Soft exterior is a bonus but I can manage the exterior easier than the interior. I am hoping for silk levels of soft but I’ll take whatever is the softest/silkiest.

Thank you!

Does anyone have experience with the "Abena Slip Premium" diapers?

Are the tapes easily adjustable and reliable?

I currently wear Seni Super Quatro, but the Abena would be cheaper and have better availability.

Does anyone else use pads in their diapers for added protection?
Iv recently needed more absorbing from my diaper so I am using always size 6 maxi since we already have those in the house for my wife . Just curious if anyone else has tried this or what else they use