u/ShebaExalted1968

I post my own meanings on reddit sometimes or achievements that i have made(only in the correct subreddits), and i constantly run into people who just make accusations or points that do not even relate to what i post, as an example if i were to say that "hubba bubba is garbage gum and mentos is much better", and then the guy that likes hubbabubba starts saying i need to fix my grammar before i can post things?, and when i aknowledge this i ask them what i spelled wrong and why he is saying this in the first place i get no reply whatsoever. And ofcourse this example is much less brutal than how people usually act and its just annoying to see how many people cant comprehend having a real debate or coming up with things related to the argument. I feel this way towards many people in real life too so if anyone has any tips for what to do(other than not posting) it would be a genuine help!

I dont like when people expect things of me, i still do things. Dont get me wrong here but as an example when i went to school when i was younger i was not really paying attencion because i picked up on the themes and academics pretty fast(preschool ofcourse, this didnt work as well for middle school) and when i went to school and focused for one day i would often be expected to do the exact same the next day by my parents. And if i would do the exact same for a full week they would now expect me to go to the gym or a type of sport, if i did this too they would expect me to go outside and hangout with friends alot. You get where this is going? At one point i realized it was better to just do the bare minimum to dodge the expectations because that was my only way, if i wouldnt do homework for a month and then read s book that would be a big moment and like that with many other things i just lowered the bar for many things. To this day i still dont really appreciate it when things are expected of me just because i do them once.

I feel as if my whole life has gone by without meeting someone who also loves to try out everything and focus on something, someone who i can go from discussing if some "people dont know if they exist" right over to chess positions or how to bake a good cake. i know ofcourse many and most people with high intellegence arent really that social and thats one thing i want to change because learning and exploring thoughts with another is really benefitial for learning. And if someone maybe want to reach out that would be nice:)

I am an undiagnosed (so far) autistic guy who loves logic like chess and everyday problems, i also love philosophy and just finding the answer to weird things like for example the human brain has an estimated storage capacity of 1.5-2.5 petabytes(2.5 million gigabytes) and i am kind of tired discussing things with the average person because they dont always want to understand my points or i have to slow down and i feel i cant really get my true thoughts out. I am currently being examined for autism as well since they have strong speculations of it at this centre or whatever you call it🤷‍♂️. I am heavy in on chess and i constantly love to explore positions and try to see the next moves without touching a single piece, my best score on survival mode is 59 for those who might wonder. And i am also alot inside and on discord so if anyone wants to be mutuals with me there that would be great!

I have always been a chess.com player but recently i decided to try lichess and apart from the layout and sounds being great i am noticing that 70-80 of players i play at 2000-2100 blunder their queen very often and ask for takebacks all the time, and they stall out games when they are loosing, why?

I am 2000 chess.com and i wanted to try lichess as a place to play for fun, suddenly as i am climbing up 1700 i get put in a game against a guy named Dr.Firouzja and within the first 10 seconds of the 10 minutes he had, this guy played a perfect line of the vienna gambit against me for like 12 moves and then just kept on blitzing out moves the exact same way very strong club players play against me. Am i crazy or could this be him?

I have 1900 rapid and i get to actually play a good game, while in blitz (i just had a 8 loosing streak) there is just alot of shitty openings that you dont have time to punish and just check spamming on every oppourtunity that people get, i have 1600 blitz and generally i just wanna know if there is a way to actually improve in blitz or if it is all about having alot of experience and solid pattern recognition, in rapid i dont need as much pattern recognition because i can be creative and calculate long lines