AIO for standing up to my boyfriend’s family ?
PLEASE READ DESCRIPTION!!!! so a little backstory is me and my boyfriend his younger sister(age 20) had gotten to arguing in 2024 so two years ago and she hasn’t talked to me or my boyfriend really(her brother) In late 2024 I had got pregnant and gave birth in September 2025 and the whole time she did not talk to me or ask how I was doing or talk to my boyfriend(her brother) either and just been really distant and at my baby Shower i did not want her there because if you are not gonna talk to me or my family, why do you need to attend the baby shower. Now she continues to be distant and she’s been distant this whole time. She has called me names, disrespected me and wished bad things on me while i was pregnant and just has been very hateful. My boyfriend(her brother) has been trying to contact her and call her and message her to try and fix a relationship and so she can have a relationship with her niece and she says like oh okay everything is good and fine but then the next week switched it up and just keeps doing the same thing again and blaming me and saying I just don’t know if I can get over the situation with me n her. So I texted her myself because if she has a problem with me, why would she not just text me instead of my boyfriend playing Messenger. The first screenshots are me texting her and then she didn’t even respond so the second screenshots are their older sister texting me and getting involved. Am I overreacting here and should just let it go or should I continue to stand up for myself? I just don’t know what to do.
EDIT: I just realized i didn’t put the full text from the older sister So here is the beginning of it that you can’t see in the screenshot.
“Daisy deadass stop texting Kyndal literally that's not the way to go about communication you can come over here & we'll all talk in PERSON we're grown af. Stop telling her if she is or isn't gonna be around the baby & stop speaking for fucking JJ leave it to fucking us or come over & talk in person. Just like you get your feelings hurt Kyndal ALSO has her feelings hurt by multiple things & by your weird ass hoe ass friends. & let Valerie know(I seen all that bullshit Valerie said to you about my looks & how OUR family is trailer trash & etc) & Bailey wanna issue w Kyndal so bad so they will both be getting their ass tore tf up when I seen them Valerie better be glad I ain't do that shit at the baby shower🥰”