I have been using dating apps (unfortunately) but I am not looking for something casual from the get go. Not comfortable with going directly to someone's home before seeing them outside, so I get a few msgs from guys asking to come over but ofc I wanna say politely that I would rather see them outside first. How do you guys say it? I just don't wanna be rude or come as closed off.
I am 26 F and have been using dating apps for about a year now and have been on quite some dates. I started using them after a long relationship ended and he was the only guy ever in my life.
Initially I went on dates to know what I am looking for in a guy and I think now I know it better as to what I would like in a guy. But it's always been me who has msged the guys that I don't think this is what I want and now I just feel bad sometimes by thinking what if he was the one and I was too quick in judging? Some of them were nice but it didn't click for me. Am I being too picky? Does anybody else feel that way?
I have been using dating apps for a while now but still learning what I want. I went on a first date with a guy and he was sweet, nice and felt like talking to a friend but less of a matching sense of humor and we had just quite different likings. I didn't feel attracted to him or anything of that sort. He wants to see me again but I am really not sure, he lives far away too so I don't want to waste anybody's time either. What do you look for on a first date?
That's what I have heard but just hurt when a guy did it and I couldn't really do it myself. What am I doing wrong?