Hot take: ‘Maintaining fairness’ by not giving buyer updates usually hurts the seller
I’ve been on both sides and I’m so sick of this.
On the listing side, I’ve never been told by the seller to not give updates to “maintain fairness”. Why would any seller ever do that? Even if a seller did say that, I would highly recommend against it since their goal should be obtaining the highest price for their property possible.
On the other hand, I’ve had multiple times where I’ve called listing agents and they have said that same excuse. “Sorry, we’re maintaining fairness, no updates”.
Last time I checked the listing agent has a fiduciary duty to the seller, not other buyers. I’m not sure how it’s unfair but it seems to be truly a Bay Area phenomenon. Even in SoCal you usually get Seller Multiple Counters or a chance to go up with general updates. In the Bay Area that’s just not the case majority of the time.
A lot of the time this hurts the seller because other parties don’t have a benchmark to increase against and usually do nothing without a concrete update.
Have any sellers on this thread actually told their agent not to give updates to maintain fairness to the buyers?