u/Short-Imagination311

I (45f) have a date tonight at 8pm with a (48m). We are just texting and I asked him what he’s up to today and he says ‘spring cleaning my apartment, boring but at least I have some nice tequila to make it tolerable’.
Yea I’m not a day drinker and I’ve definitely never drank while cleaning.
Is this a red flag?

A contractor at work that comes in a couple of times a week always makes weird comments to me (35f).
‘Wow you are looking super skinny’
‘Your waist is so thin I could wrap my hands around it!’
‘You look like a wasp or a hornet’

I know. It’s all really strange. Is he flirting and interested in me, or is this negging?