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How do I heal from this

(29m 32f) It's been about 3 weeks, and im still trying to process everything. We were together for a year. We were just talking about getting our own apartment, moving to a new town together, and even feeling ready to get engaged in the fall. She has a child from a previous relationship, so for my birthday she gave me framed photos of the 3 of us, and a worlds best dad pin. Said she considers me the father of them. 15 days later, she texted saying she needs some space to think about things. 48 hours later, she texted we have to break up because her heart's not it in. The last time we saw eachother in person, everything was amazing. I had absolutely no idea this was coming. Not a hint. This is the woman I thought I was going to marry. The child that had truly become like my own. And now it's been weeks and ive barely heard anything from her other than we're done. I know i should feel angry, upset, betrayed...but I just miss her. I miss them both. Id give anything for another shot. This is the hardest thing ive ever experienced. I loved them both more than life itself, and now im completely alone, shattered. I dont know what to do from here

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u/ShrimpInABeanie97 — 2 months ago