u/SidOP31

I have a serious question about dating scenes. When I was talking with my hg, she said she likes my friend. Which was pretty reasonable as he is good-looking, tall and funny. But when I gave her advice like - start talking to him, send reels, etc. she said -"he must be taken or something"

And I was like 😵‍💫 my guy has been since since 22 years and he's not getting game just cause females think he's taken??? Wth

And the guy who is not even good-looking, short gets more game than this guy.

I'm genuinely perplexed and for my personal doubt I've been 2-3 girls (like u can tell she likes me kinda shyt)

But all of them are not that attractive. So I genuinely dunno if I should shoot my shot in my league or just play in the championship.

(p.s. I've been in 2 relationships before and both of them were pretty btw)

Ffs I watched too many videos of "are you attractive enough for a female gaze??" And none of them helped a bit. Though I have been called handsome by other girls before but I'm really practical and skeptical to believe that. So is there any proof or it's just vibes at the end of the day 🤷?