u/Signal_Care_1071

people will say a black woman has "euro centric" features because she has a smaller nose, i genuinely dont know why people love to say that i genuinely just believe its negging to put down these women trying to act like black features and attractiveness are mutually exclusive because no body and i mean no body would call a white women with big lips "afro centric" looking because her lips are big but ppl are so quick to say that a black woman looks basically white because her nose is smaller.I remember when people tried to say Anok Yai had eurocentric features, its absolute ridiculousnes because her nose its quite bulbous but very proportionate to her face. And dont get me started on Teeniesha, where people were trying to claim shes blasian simply because shes pretty and cute looking as a black woman. Im so tired of pretty black girls being perceived as pretty in spite of their blackness or theyre some sort of one in a billion or they must be mixed, because i feel like both black and non black people contribute to it. Its so fake and back handed, honestly in general im tired of people especially non black people(men) percieving black girls and because they are so used to just insulting us and calling us ugly and saying would never date one(many times unprovoked), when they see an attractive black women they genuinely just dont know how to act. It can never just stop at "shes so pretty!" it always has to be some shit like "wow i think black girls are ugly but this one actually looks good, is she mixed?"

Do u see those girls where you can tell they have good features but just bad styling and if they just changed their styling they would look pretty. I'm so jealous of that bc I feel like that's the only "ugly" that's accept, yeah she has acne or dark circles but shes basically HTB, just going off harmonious facial features. I wish I had that. Ugly girls can never have actual ugly representation, it's always these types. These are the poster faves of ugly girls and it's just attractive women in disguise. These are the girls that can glow up to Stacy tier with no plastic surgery involved meanwhile actual ugly women need surgery just to be average or ltb.

I wasn't able to have any sort of good teenage experiences bc I was ugly, with a low income family. I'll all this about teenage years being time to experiment and discover yourself and I would see teens who would have fun and express themselves and look they like they were to live as themselves with some freedom. Dressing however they want, doing what they wanted and developing themselves. Growing up from a low income family and ugly completely limited that experience for me. Never had a boyfriend, no guy interested in me. I couldn't really the romantised teenage life when I basically stopped getting christmas and birthday presents after 11 bc it became an extra expense for my family. It made me bitter as hell, to see the average teen life which was to do what u want, get what u want, start to date ppl and discover ur identity, when I couldn't have any of that. So the times for me to be care free and without responsibilities were wasted bc the unfortunate fact that I was born unlucky.

My face is so ugly, I'm genuinely the ugliest person in the room, no guy, likes me or has asked me out, and I saw a girl doing PDA with her boyfriend, while outside and I realised how Ill probably never get to experience any sort of affection, and it's worse to see how males can be caring towards to girl they find attractive, while ugly girls like me are nothing but a joke or a punching where, every second u sped around them reminds u of how none of them are or will ever be attracted to you. I will never feel tenderness from a male ill forever have to keep my guard up and quickly move along with my business, or keep a blunt, serious tone because ik none of them like me it could quickly turn to be a humiliation on my part.

I can only make sure to cope and distract myself with things that will bring me enough happiness or entertainment to distract from my unlovable face and harsh reality.

"well you picked her."

"why do guys only go for bad girls? "

"why do girls who are toxic alway have a guy to be toxic to? "

"Stacy does what Stacy wants. "

Give these males what they dish out, so they can shut the fuck up.