u/Significant-Depth263

So I’ve been with my bf for about 7 years.. I’ve had 4 black eyes and a LOT of violence over all mentally emotionally physically even to my pets and family last time I got hit he was arrested he punched me in the face and hit me in the head with my rear view mirror that he ripped off while I was driving 60 mph on the highway I stopped in the middle of the lane side ways and by the grace of god jumped out of the car my eye was bleeding and I was confused. The next day he got out of jail and unfortunately I took him back I started cheating on him and knock on wood he hasn’t hit me since which doesn’t make sense to me earlier in our relationship I was the perfect girlfriend now that I’m horrible to him he seems nicer and more respectful to me.. the arrest was about a year ago. Also I almost feel like I deserved the things that have happened bc now that I cheat I don’t see myself as the pure hearted person I once was.Has this happened to anyone else do they ever just stop being physically violent?

So me and my friends were playing 21 questions her word was slide I said is it a form of transportation she says YES would u have answered the same?
Then my word was eyeball she said can u eat it I said YES but u wouldn’t would u have answered the same?
PLEASE GIVE UR ANSWER ON BOTH!!??

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(Disclaimer my cat is SAFE NOW)My bf had this thing with my cat he used to beat him pretty bad to a point of the cat pooping everywhere, and didn’t eat for 3 days till I had to get him to a vet out of fear. he’d punch the cat and lock him in a cage and spray him down with water, he’d vacuum up his tail, I even found that my bf peed in the cats water bowl once, and over all he just seems so jealous of my cat. he says weird stuff like the we got kicked out so my cat can have a nice place to live (we got kicked out of my parent house bc of how horrible he was not just to the cat ) it’s sad to bc my cat is a tough cookie he stands up for himself, but i think he loved my bf and was caught off guard or shocked bc he didn’t fight back or scratch him or anything, even after the attack my cat didn’t seem that scared of him he still tries to come up to him and sniff him and stuff, he also has this weird thing where he constantly thinks my cats hair is everywhere and in his mouth. we haven’t lived with my cat in over a year it’s so bizarre he has this rage when he thinks my cats hair is in his mouth which is impossible to be true. like i just don’t understand what is this? what is with the overwhelming consuming thoughts about my cat???