I hate this BS that we are saving money.
Edit: I realize two packages of 4 "saves" me money. It's the tricks that are used to confuse you and lead you to believe you are. The yellow (or red) ticketing and "in store feature" claim.
Ugh! I've (49F) been trying this dating thing for almost a year. Previous to this I was on my own for a couple of years after my divorce. But so far I have met:
-1 man into ENM. Supposedly his wife approved but I did not.
- 2 men "separated" from their partners, but ghosted me after about a month of texting.
-1 big time love bomber that ignited all my red flags
- 1 p***s video
- 1 guy not with his exes but not over them either.
-1 guy cheating on his partner
- 1 guy who I'm 99% sure is a catfish and committed identity theft (I already reported it)
I am not looking for a relationship. I'm trying to meet people and rebuild my tribe that I lost in my divorce.... and yeah have a bit of fun. The apps suck and I refuse to pay for them to suck more. The real life meet ups always seem to happen on days that my children are with me, and few of them in my city are catered towards people over 40. I work in a female heavy workforce.
Edit: I have my kids 50%, and I'm not happy about it, so my time with them is precious. My time without I've done reclaiming my identity, and finding hobbies. Most of my hobbies men wouldn't find interesting.