u/SignificantLeg2815

Hi there, 29F Singaporean here. I’m asexual, firmly childfree, and putting myself out here again to see if there’s are any guy in a similar situation.

I’m basically looking for someone who wants a platonic relationship.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone I can genuinely become close friends with first, someone to hang out with, eat with, complain about life with, attend family things together, and maybe eventually build a peaceful life together.

There is quite a bit of pressure from my family to get married, and I am open to marriage eventually. But I really don’t want to marry some random person just for the sake of being married lol I’d much rather it be someone I actually care about and enjoy being around.

I’m looking for a guys, 29-35 years old, who’s Singapore based (Singaporean would be even better), definitely doesn’t want kids, is okay with me being ace and no sexual intimacy, and is looking for something genuinely long-term.

You don’t have to be ace yourself. Maybe you’re dealing with your own family expectations, maybe a conventional relationship isn’t really what you want either, or maybe this kind of companionship just sounds nice to you.

And I’m definitely not expecting to meet someone and immediately start planning a wedding lol I just want to talk, become friends, see if we actually like each other and figure things out naturally from there.

Hmu if any of this resonates with you :)

Hi! I’m a 29F from Singapore (Indian Muslim background), and I’m honestly at a point where I’m urgently looking for someone who’d be open to a lavender marriage if we genuinely get along.

My mum has been introducing guy after guy and putting a lot of pressure on me to get married, so ideally I’d like to find someone myself rather than have that decision constantly made for me.

A little about me:

- 29F
- Singaporean
- Asexual
- Indian Muslim background, but I’m not religious. If you’re not Muslim, that’s completely fine with me.
- Looking to get married within the next 2 years or so if we genuinely vibe and are compatible.

A few dealbreakers:

- I do not want children. Not now, not ever. I’m not going to change my mind, so I’d need someone who’s completely okay with that.
- Must be Singaporean and living in Singapore. I’m not looking to relocate.
- If you’re asexual too, that’s a huge bonus, but it’s not a requirement as long as you’re genuinely okay with a non-sexual marriage.

What I’m looking for is someone I can be friends with, support each other through family expectations, and build a calm, stable life together without the usual romantic or sexual expectations.

If any of this sounds like what you’re looking for too, feel free to send me a DM.

I’m honestly just really tired of the family pressure and hoping to meet someone who’s in a similar situation.