abusive?
is it abuse if my parents expect me or want me to get the best grades possible, yet since pandemic or in fact since I was around grade 4 (A year before pandemic), they have been stacking household chores on us. No matter how many times we keep showing, giving clear signs we have tasks to do, they dont care, they dont change the schedule. My brother started household chores before grade 1, and they think its "fair" if all of us do chores in the house. What about our studies? We get less than an hour left for studies, and we end up finishing our chores at around 9,10, or 11. Most usually at 11. Then we have to do homework, tasks, school works, group works, etc. Not to mention, my parents made me an introvert. my dad always shouts when he's pissed, breaks stuff, when he punches my arm it hurts 3 weeks or more. When I was grade 1 I can remember him pulling me up by the sleeve, and shouting, asking why I threw the black cookie part of oreos under my desk. I was around 6 or 7 years old that time. I can remember how he threatened me and threatened to get a knife and I cried for 1 freaking hour yet I dont know why I'm still alive. I still remember it now. My dad never liked questions either. I literally stopped asking questions in class after I was curious as hell in grade 3.