



Stop crying lovesoostrong (aka mommytang during her earlier days )
Title: When did this become less about veganism and more about being the victim?
I genuinely don’t understand the constant crying and victim narrative surrounding this creator’s decision to stop being vegan. And I don’t care about one’s choice of diet . But what is she even about ???
She was vegan for years, made that choice for herself, and now that she has decided to eat animal products, that’s completely her choice. Nobody is saying she has to remain vegan forever.
What bothers me is the way the conversation seems to have shifted from “I changed my diet” to “veganism controlled my entire life and I need to escape it.”
And now it feels like almost every video revolves around crying, being overwhelmed, or portraying her past vegan lifestyle as something that was forced upon her. If she genuinely felt restricted or unhappy, she absolutely has the right to talk about that—but constantly framing it as though veganism itself victimized her feels excessive.
You can leave veganism without turning every vegan into the villain.
You can eat meat again without making your former lifestyle the source of every problem.
And you can talk about your experience without repeatedly positioning yourself as the victim.
Now her entire life involves around herself and just herself . I don’t now how her super young husband even keeps up with her mood swings . Her children all grew up well but I see that the two eldest prefers living with their dad