u/Single-Muffin4409

So, I (23F) have 2 new guy friends and I've been hanging out with them pretty frequently. I've been taking my friend (23F) with me because I don't like showing up places alone. I've started developing a small crush on one of the guy friends and I've been talking to that same friend about it for advice.

Anyways, this past weekend I had a work thing so I spent my Sunday out and about. I asked her what she ended up doing on Sunday since we didn't hang out and she said she watched the sunset and TV.

Then on Monday, she texted me to tell me she hung out with my crush but it was friendly and she didn't want to lie to me but she felt bad. Now, I'm not speaking to her for the moment and distracting myself with work. I'm having a feeling she's male-centered and loving the attention, but I feel betrayed and backstabbed. Am I in the position to feel upset with her or am I overreacting? I don't know what to reply back with, any advice on that would be great too.

So, I have 2 new guy friends and I've been hanging out with them pretty frequently. I've been taking my friend (F) with me because I don't like showing up places alone. I've started developing a small crush on one of the guy friends and I've been talking to that same friend about it for advice.

Anyways, this past weekend I had a work thing so I spent my Sunday out and about. I asked her what she ended up doing on Sunday since we didn't hang out and she said she watched the sunset and TV.

Then on Monday, she texted me to tell me she hung out with my crush but it was friendly and she didn't want to lie to me but she felt bad. Now, I'm not speaking to her for the moment and distracting myself with work. I'm having a feeling she's male-centered and loving the attention, but I feel betrayed and backstabbed. Am I in the position to feel upset with her or am I overreacting? I don't know what to reply back with, any advice on that would be great too.

So, I have 2 new guy friends and I've been hanging out with them pretty frequently. I've been taking my friend (F) with me because I don't like showing up places alone. I've started developing a small crush on one of the guy friends and I've been talking to that same friend about it for advice.

Anyways, this past weekend I had a work thing so I spent my Sunday out and about. I asked her what she ended up doing on Sunday since we didn't hang out and she said she watched the sunset and TV.

Then on Monday, she texted me to tell me she hung out with my crush but it was friendly and she didn't want to lie to me but she felt bad. Now, I'm not speaking to her for the moment and distracting myself with work. I'm having a feeling she's male-centered and loving the attention, but I feel betrayed and backstabbed. Am I in the position to feel upset with her or am I overreacting? I don't know what to reply back with, any advice on that would be great too.