FatFired: Hard Time Finding Things To Buy If I Want To Keep It On The DL While Being A Role Model To Our Children
44yo with over 12M in investments/retirements and a 500k/year income (passive+part timing). Everything is paid off including my kid's college. Have 2 grade school children.
Do you guys find that eventually there's nothing else left to buy if you want to keep it on the down low? I mean sure there are always something you can buy to blow your money, but eventually you hit a hard wall with diminishing in returns while getting unwanted attention. I honestly don't feel comfortable coming out of a Bentley/Lambo with an AP Royal Oak and LV my entire wardrobe. I mean I would totally buy a Ferrari due to my desire for them, but there's no way this desire supersede random stranger's attention every time I go out.
I know most people say travel is the answer, but with it's difficult when kids have school so you are limited to their schedules. Even when I do travel, I enjoy living and talking with the locals and not hide away in 5 star resorts. I especially like for my children to experience 3rd world harshness so they can appreciate the life they have since these opportunities are more rare in the States. More importantly, I want my children to understand they are not above others and must continue to feel comfortable in harsh environments while interacting with people with little status or money.
Others may say "spend it on food" but our palette is unaccustomed to the culinary arts. In fact my wife just enjoys her noodle soups with simple beef (no seafood, no wagyu, no nothing).
Curious what you guys are spending your money on if you already more than satisfy with what you already have? I am trying to find this balance in which my kids are raised to understand the value of the dollar and hard work while not ending up not enjoying life. Even with current financial situation, my wife and I still show up to work(part time) making insignificant amounts of money and still answers to a time card/supervisor just to be a role model(even though deep down we are totally done with work).
Edit: Seems like people thinks I am looking for ways to spend money which is not the case. I am seeing if there are other Fat Fire people in my situation and if there's anything learned/regrets dealing with this scenario.