u/SlayQueen838

I’m pretty sure this guy is an enfj 2 and I’ve observed this behavior where he picks up traits of people I adore and attempts to embody them. You know, I don’t mind it, but find it odd because I already like him for who he is and he doesn’t need to do that. (the opportunity for an honest conversation isn’t available atm so please dont suggest talking to him) I’m going to assume this is one of those instinctual things enfjs do as part of accommodation tactics and creating scenarios that we can smoothly bond over.

Now I want to know the following:

1. do you do this and why?
2. Does it mean something?
3. What encourages you to be more like yourself and not a role?

I’m an absolute hoe and very sexual with frequent waking moments of self disgust whenever a modest man I like shuns me. I thought about changing that because honestly, I’m not really a hoe hoe. I’m honestly just a geek who’d rather be watching meerkats in natgeo. When healing from bpd, there comes a point of acceptance that no one can meet you in the depths you’re in. Why not just be celibate? Live a happy life single. I ask because we also don’t want to fall for another extreme, right?