u/Slimrich7711

Thanks! I definitely want to begin serious dating and get married. In navigating past a connection that hasn't produced marriage- for those that went on to marry someone else happily, what is your advice? also, how did you navigate this all. did you post on social media about the engagement? how did the first few dates feel when you found your spouse? I'm so interested to know please feel free to leave a comment esp. if you are happily married to someone else other than your twin :)

This is an amazing change for me! The idea of him being with someone else doesn’t hurt me anymore. i always said i would feel bad for any woman that he treated poorly. i can hear a random ‘breakup tune’ out or on the radio & i literally don’t feel that pain anymore. I got confirmation from a couple places over the past week that have proven my feelings to be right & correct. They said that his higher self is actually proud of me & thinks that I made the best decision! I can’t 100% think that he would be fully happy for me when i get married and have a family of my own, I think i use to want him to be happy for me but, now i feel indifferent about it. I also thought before maybe if i ran into him in person i would be enraged and super angry now, I don’t think I would. Would i want to see him in person by accident, heck no. But, i hope that this complete healing can show that AS AN ADULT this wouldn’t bother me anymore. Before they are like us in another body you just want or have hoped that they would do the right thing. I think that’s because I know that I want the right things and wanted them to change for themselves not even for anyone else. I hope this makes some sense but, i wanted to share because I know that hopeless feeling of not thinking that anything can change or feel better. Hey! maybe be platonic friends would of been beautiful but, maybe now i’ll never know. I bet i could be friends but, I don’t think he could. I feel like i have brought up this idea to him in passing awhile ago but, I don’t think during that turbulent time that it was well received. Life goes on! Make most of it.

I'm so pissed i felt like i went through all of that for nothing. I am fully convinced that tf is not my life parnter. Free will i guess has over ruled. Can't say we are enemies but, i don't respect or like him. I just want my life partner, my spouse, the person god made for me to be in marriage with. I can't believe i went through all of that for it to end this way. I'm relieved that it is over but, i'm just pissed and this mercury retrograde isn't helping at all. Like spiritually i just feel like something has turned up alot almost like my energy is higher and something has speed up- and now i'm just in this energy of meeting my person because clearly they aren't meant to do life with me and grow with me, that's pretty obvious. Please if anyone else has felt this way please comment i'm just so pissed and its easier to just jump into something new but, i feel like im essentially starting over- i have to learn about a whole other person but i'm willing to go through all of that process just to know that i have meet my person and i never have to date another person again like i'm so ready to be married like i can feel this new person in my energy and i'm excited but, also pissed because i'm like WHERE ARE THEY