u/SlowCountry9261

I am 18 so will be going to uni in september. Through college and back end of secondary school i struggled to erm lets say stay away from women. I have made a promise to myself that I am going to just say not interested to any woman who hints at anything and not go after anyone myself but I am worried I will go back to my old ways. Anyone here with advice to keep their lust under control. (marriage aint an option right now)

But I am also worried that if i don't find someone in uni I will have to rely on more conventional methods such as getting set up etc etc. But I have heard too many stories about women cheating on spouses taking money after accusing assault along with other nasty things. So I am stuck on what to do.

Am I right in thinking UoL is really social. Been pinching myself out of excitement to go to uni but I have a fear its just going to be dead individualistic. I have been told from friends that once i get into it I will be wishing I was back in college. Any thoughts?