u/Snoo-71717

Hello, I've visited with my partner Hessen quite a bit of time ago, but we didn't have enough time to visit Hanau as well and, it does seem like an awesome place from what we've seen online, my question is, do you have any recomandations for cafes, parks,clubs and public spaces n hubs, perhaps some of the city's landmarks, which ones do you find the most important to visit?

Thank you in advance and, if anyone is up for a hangout or something more spontaneous, feel free to dm me/us.

As mentioned in the title ,I'm curious if anyone can offer some recommendations for me and my partner in regards to social places, or places where you can meet people a bit more spontaneously, do you have any bars or cafes or something in that direction, that are a must visit, perhaps clubs or pubs? we'd like to know, and thank you in advance.

So, I've met this guy in Uni, after a longer period of time where I didn't have anyone else in my life sadly, I just had two friends but they weren't the closest to me emotionally, and so, I bonded with this guy from afar for about one year, then we became friends and close friends, things seemed good throughout the years but, as time went on, especially about 1 to 1.5 years ago, things started to go haywire

After moving away to Germany to live with my gf, that was 2 years ago, we grew a bit more distant, though we did talk on discord daily, it felt kinda different, kinda like something was missing, even when we met again 1.5 years ago, he was different, more distant, not super super distant but definitely more reserved n stuff.

Fast forward to the last weeks, things have been more and more shaky between us, as we've been growing distant from one another, mainly him getting into looksmaxxing, changing from someone who valued feelings into someone that seems to care more about his feelings about anything else and, he's been cooking this plan for the last week it seems, he dumped me, my gf and another friend of ours, just like that.

He left me with a cheap goodbye message and called it a day, I got messaged by his older bff from high school who just played his cards like he tried to prevent this like, nah, you didn't, you hated on my relationship with my gf from super early on, and also played a role in influencing my, now, ex-bff it seems.

I feel devastated as I didn't really expect this, I had a feeling in my gut but nothing like this, this is definitely a point of no return for me and, given how things ended up, especially now, which is still close-ish to our (me and my wifey's) return to the capital city where I grew up in, I feel super pissed off about it all,

I feel like I just don't wanna do anything but clubbing, drinking, getting a job just to support all of this, picking up smoking/vaping again cuz who tf cares anymore, and just going wild, partying in an empty fashion just to blow off some steam, for reference, I had super strict parents and I couldn't go club or do things like that, besides all of this

I just can't seem to be able to find my inner resolution, to find peace within myself, cuz, as the years rolled by initially, it felt like he was going to be by our side for decades to come, and, hearing how my gf is apparently, a "narcissist", despite her helping me throughout the last 2+ years, emotionally, monetarily and so on, and hearing how I'm her "co-dependent", all coming from the same person who pushed me to move in with her as he saw that I was suffering and crying after her, it really hits you in an f-ed up way tbh.

I'm writing here cuz I just have a bunch of impulses, idk what to do anymore, I feel like closing myself to the world and just quitting being social and, especially emotional for real, seeing someone who was carrying, compassionate and platonically loving, into someone who just sees me as a danger, nuisance, a risk for his emotional and mental safety, and someone who doesn't even have the guts to talk to me face to face on cam or on voice, that's just infuriating, devastating and quite miserable, to say the least, and so

What now?

I feel like there's nothing left for me to do tbh, idk how to cope with this in healthy way, I wanna hear some different input as well, and thank you in advance either way though, I very much appreciate it <3