u/Sola361

It's day 12 and I still can't talk properly at all without it hurting and sounding off..

I had no significant pain after waking up and didn't even use any pain meds all day.

Currently I'm on day 6.7 and the pain is unbearable without pain meds.

For those who are already done with the recovery or more advanced than me, when did the pain start getting better?

For as long as I could think, I had very big tonsils and I'm pretty sure they are causing a big part of my insomnia so I can't wait to get rid of them.

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It's my first surgery under general anesthesia so I'm bit overwhelmed but they say it's one of the most peaceful ways to go if it happens right..

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I'm expecting a lot of pain which is completely fine with me since I have a pretty high pain tolerance from living a shitty life 😆

The only things I'm worried about is seriously bleeding afterwards and that they might damage my teeth.

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I have been trying to get this surgery for nearly half a year and now it's time.. do you guys have any tips for me?

First I wanna clarify that I'm a pretty shy guy so I never approached anyone and don't really plan to change that because it just feels extremely awkward and cringe to me, like a humiliation ritual.

So I occasionally take the bus and sometimes there is this girl who is also in the bus, never really noticed her until I saw her sometimes looking behind her seat, didn't really think much of it because people sometimes do that in the bus until one day we were seated opposite of each other (she was on the left side of the seats, me on the right) and I noticed with the corner of my eye she turns her head in my direction but I still didn't though much of it because it could be possible she was trying to look through the window on my side until one day I got up to exit the bus together with a lot of others including her and she was seated near the bus exit, she stands up but dosnt go towards the exit, instead she stops for a few seconds waiting for me coming towards her and looks in my eyes for like two seconds, than we both exited the bus (she did so first) and she stops again with her friend and looks at me as I was exiting the bus.

So I'm pretty sure she has intererest in me after all those clues because I don't know this girl at all and only ever saw her in the bus, we both live in a small town but we never saw each other besides in bus rides.

I was scared to approach her because like I said I'm a pretty introverted shy guy and I always think girls would lose interest in me anyway after getting to know me more because I'm not extroverted or good at talking with the other gender.

I would have preferred if she approached me instead because I would have no other choice but talk to her the first step would be done but she did everything but approach me lol at that point she could have aswell said a word... if she was that shy she wouldn't have done all that looking and stop to look at me so I don't really understand why she didn't talk to me after doing all that..

Any advice how to proceed from here? Because I'm pretty sure won't ever approach her because I'm too much of a pussy.