u/SometimesTaha01

I’ve talked to my dad about how when I turn 18, I’d like to start testosterone. His response was to be overprotective and scared of what will happen to me since I live in the U.S. I currently live with him and I haven’t explained the danger of me looking visibly queer and not being stealth compared to looking like a butch lesbian. I think I want to go on testosterone either way, but I’m afraid he’ll be upset since he technically forbid me… Just want some advice as to what to so since I don’t want to upset him, but I have dreamed for YEARS to just go stealth and feel like myself in my body.