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Black Trans Guy’s Top Surgery Funding!
Hello! My name is Geordie. I am a Black Trans-masc who is currently raising money to afford top surgery.
I will be paying for everything completely out of pocket because I do not have insurance coverage or family support to help with the costs.
For my own safety and privacy, I am not able to share photos of my face publicly. Even so, I wanted to share a little of my story and ask for support during this important step in my life.
Any donation, no matter how small, would mean so much to me and help me get closer to my goal. If you are unable to donate, sharing this fundraiser is also deeply appreciated. Thank you so much for taking the time to read and support me.
Free STP
Anybody want an STP. It was about $100 but doesnt work well for me. I have a lot of sensory issues, so maybe packing just isnt for me. As long as you are in the US I will ship it to you for free. It is a soft flexible silicone with movable balls
BIRTHDAY OUTFIT!!
My stepdad works at Eton, a suits company, this morning i got to take the bus there and choose a shirt and tie. Im not the biggest guy maybe, but i managed to fix the sizing a bit with some safety pins, the sleeves and length of the shirt. I feel very handsome actually. 16!! I am very happy. Okay, thank you, i just wanted to share :)
Have a nice day, dudes!
Workout advice
I am 13 almost 14 pre t (starting next month🥳) i have been working out for 4 years on and off, but i have been lifting consistently for the last 9 months
I am looking for advice on how to get a more masc look, or how i should prepare before starting t
The current workouts i have been doing in order:
Back 10lb+15lb
Side shrug 15lb
Paddle row 10lb
Shoulders 10lb+15lb
Alt front raise x upright row 15lb
Rear delt opener 15lb
Push press 10lb
Double front raise-pronated 10lb
Arnold press 10lb
Shoulder press 10lb
Forearms and biceps 15lb
bicep curls
Wrist x hammer curls
Bicep curl negatives
Reverse curls
Double wide curls
Alt hammer x bicep curls
Alt inward curls
Alt hammer curls
Wrist x bicep curls
Hopefully i did the correct names for all of them😅
30 secs on then 30 sec rest.
I workout on days tue, thu, and sat.
I am 130lb and 5’1
Edit: i am also planning to get top surgery at 16
Do i pass?
i have some bed head today and am overdue for a hair cut😅 anyways, i’m growing some hair above my upper lip and i’ve been passing more lately, but thought i’d hear others opinions about whether or not i pass
also, on monday i hit 2 months on t!🎉🥳
Pre-T Passing?
25 ftm and desperately trying to find ways to pass more. I started using They/Them Pronouns at my new job where no one knows me, and started using my preferred name, but I desperately want to pass more so I can comfortably use he/they pronouns until I start T. Based on looking at me, what can I do to pass better before starting T?
Context: I bind/tape daily, wear a packer, and try to lower my tone of voice as much as possible without sounding too forced, but I feel like I just read female.
finasteride AFAB ID check
Hi guys this might be a silly question but I’ve been trying to get finasteride through online pharmacies like simpleonline, boots, oxford etc pretending I’m a cis male but they all ask for ID verification. I think it might be to check age but will they reject me based on “miss” or the gender marker? I’m about to go on home brewed T and don’t wanna get it through my GP. Pls lmk thanks 🤓🤓
how old do i look?
hey i’d just like to know what age you’d give me at first glance, thanks 👋
Do i pass better with or without my hair done?
I usually style my hair in the morning but it takes really long and i dont wanna do it everymorning but i dont wanna get misgenderd either (14 /pre-T)
how do i put together good outfits as a very short guy and still pass?
ok so im extremely short like, around 4'10 (ik, I'm cooked 😭🙏) and I have some weight on me, it's not too noticeable but it is definitely there so i can't exactly wear anything fitted/tight. the outfits I wear currently make me pass very well but they're just boring in my opinion and I really wanna change it up without looking even shorter than I already am or not passing. I'd like to dress like one of those basic cis guys with the baggy jeans and boxy looking shirts (I hope y'all know what I'm talking about). is that possible or am I delusional??
Non riesco ad accettarmi
ho iniziato la terapia ormonale e ho avuto subito l.'orticaria e ho vissuto 2 anni senza farmaco e sono stato così da tanto.mi spiego i cambiamenti vengono nei primi anni io ho vissuto male la transizione già da subito per l ' orticaria in più i cambiamenti li vedevo e vedo minimi e cambiato solo il colore della pelle e la pelle ma i lineamenti li vedo presochê troppo simili a prima .so che a che prima sembravo un ragazzo ma speravo di sembrare un uomo avendo 30 anni e sono a 9 anni questo cambiamento i minimo .so che non sembro femmina ma non e il risultato che speravo e non riesco a vivere la mia vita in pace .vorrei aggiustare la mia faccia o semplicemente usare il minoxidil per farla crescere perché sempre poca e rada Almenno così sebrare più uomo..la voce ho la disfonia funzionale e ho difficoltà a parlare .vorrei riuscire ad operarmi ed avere una voce da uomo e non sa ragazzo effeminato.aggiuatarmi i capezzoli rovinati dall mastectomia e farmi sto cavolo di pene .non me posso più di avere la vagina
Come faccio a sentirmi uomo se ho la vagina .non ditemi accettati perche non lo accetto non riesco ad accettare che questo sono io .
Should I start eating like how a cis guy would after getting on t?
I feel like it's a stupid question, but I'm still curious. For context, my sister was helping me make a meal plan the other day. Mainly by searching up how many calories somebody my sex, weight, height, etc. should be getting, and she put female for sex since despite identifying as a guy, I was still born as a girl, at the end of the day.
Women usually have to eat less calories than men due to body differences, but then it led me to the question: would I need to be eating as much calories as a cis man would once I start testosterone? I'm not sure since t would undoubtedly make my hormone levels closer to a man's over time, but I'm still biologically female.
First time binding with tape? How'd I go???
I feel like I made more masc 'boob fat' which gives me more 'general body dysmorphia' but less gender dysphoria :/ please be honest, and give tips. I'm a D/DD cup.
Do I pass ?
Hello guys do I pass ? Been feeling pretty dysphoric lately. I really want to start T and make my face more masculine but I can’t really do much because I’m underage and not out to my parents. Is there any possible way I could access testosterone and minoxidil without any difficult procedures or my parents finding out ? Also, how old do I look based on my appearance ?😭 (My real age is 16) Give me tips on how to pass better please !
How do I look my age?
So I'm 15. 16 in July. And I fear I look 12. I know quite a few cis dudes in my grade that haven't quite hit that HS growth spurt yet but soon enough we're gonna be sophomores and they will and I'm still gonna look like I'm 13. Please don't just tell me to get a fade or something. I know my chubby ass face is like a problem but I don't have like... Make up to make it look more defined or whatever I'm too poor for that I'm also like 5'4 which isn't great. I'm trying to work on starting T but it's a slow process. I fear I can't do anything but I thought I'd ask anyway.
Ho una posa gay o etero maschio
Mi chiedevo se ho pose da gay o da uomo etero .sono un ragazzo trans ftm di 29 anni in 9 anni di terapia ormonale.
Hit 7 years on this year. Could not be more happy with where i’m at!
really haven’t been in the financial or physical position to have any procedures done, but I am immensely grateful that I’ve been able to attain the image that I had in my mind since I was about seven years old of myself through hormones.
How am i supposed to have a mlm relationship if all i feel like is a fat short little girl?
Genuine question mixed with a bit of venting. But I (17) just can’t work out what I’m supposed to do. I’ve never been in a relationship or spoken to a boy irl icl. I mainly use wizz and snap chat purely because when I discovered it about 6 months ago i thought I’d use it to get into that world and make myself comfortable talking to people. It’s definitely helped a lot but I’m still stuck.
I’ve had a couple situations online but I just don’t feel comfortable or even know how to act ‘like a boy’ I just naturally act like a girl and I hate it. Ik ppl will be like ‘there’s no acting like a girl’ but for me personally I do like binary roles. I think binary roles are a thing, it’s just not something you need to follow as such. I however do not feel comfortable acting like a binary girl.
Sexting I enjoy and sending too but only as a girl. I tell them to call me girls things and treat me like a girl because it’s the only way I know how. Being called a boy while showing off my tits just don’t seem right. But then the days I don’t feel like showing my tits I just don’t know how to sext or send like a guy at all. If I try I just feel like an idiot.
I feel like this will get better after I’ve been on T longer, currently 1 month, as I don’t even like to show my face in snaps to ppl. And also once I buy a packer which I plan to next month????