Confusion about auxiliary Fe
I feel fairly confident that Ni is my dominant function. The way I make connections, look at the bigger picture, and focus on abstract ideas fit the way it is described, and this is a big factor in my thinking processes.
I considered that I might be an INFJ, but I don't fully relate to Fe. I do take into account other people's emotions and I relate to being "people-pleasing," but the rest of what I've read doesn't fit me at all.
I have very poor social skills and I cannot read social cues or body language. I come off as cold or rude without meaning to. While I do care deeply about other people's emotions, it doesn't seem that way to other people. Also, I usually can't even tell what other people's emotions are unless they tell me. A lot of this is probably a result of being on the autism spectrum, so I'm not sure if that would influence my type or not.
One of my friends suggested that I might be an INTJ, but I don't believe I have the typical Te focus of efficiency and productivity in my decisions.
I am aware that some of my reasons why I don't have these functions may be based in stereotypes, so I'm open to correction and better education about the functions.
Is there something I'm assuming or overlooking here?