how involved should parents b in choosing a marriage partner
been thinking about this lately. where should families draw the line when it comes to helping someone find a spouse?
i get that parents want to be involved and suggest people they think might be a good fit. but ultimately, the person getting married should have the final say and be able to decide if they actually connect with someone.
my sister is going through this right now, and our family has started introducing her to potential matches. she’s independent, knows what she wants, and has her own idea of what kind of person she’d be happy with. she just doesn’t want everyone else making the decision for her.
for those who’ve been through something similar, how did your family handle it?