u/SpaceAdv

Hi everyone! I’m a mom of 17-month-old twins, and I’m finally ready to cut my hair short because it’s become impossible to maintain with two toddlers 😅
I’m looking for recommendations for a hairstylist or salon in Surrey (or nearby) that’s great with women’s short haircuts. I’d love someone who can suggest a low-maintenance style that still looks flattering and grows out well.
If you’ve had a great experience, I’d really appreciate your recommendations!
Thanks in advance!

We’re debating between the Radio Flyer stroller wagon and the Baby Trend Tour LTE for our twin toddlers 17 months BG twins .We already have a City Mini GT, but it’s not practical for daycare runs. We also have a minivan, so space isn’t an issue.
What we really want to know:
Which one is easier for everyday use with twins?
Do kids outgrow wagons quickly? (legroom / cramped issues?)
What would you pick and why?
Would love honest pros/cons from people who’ve used either 🙏

My husband is an extrovert and I’m very much an introvert. We’ve always known we were polar opposites, but somehow we made marriage work for 9 years. Since having our twins though (16 months old, very high-demand), everything feels different.

I feel myself emotionally shutting down. I don’t want to interact with him anymore, and deep down I feel like he failed me in ways that are hard to explain. At the same time, I know he’d probably say I failed him too, and I can’t completely deny that either.

Lately it feels like we’re both wondering whether we should walk away from this marriage, but parenting twins is already so overwhelming that I honestly don’t even know how one person could manage separation while raising two high-demand toddlers. I can’t tell if what we’re feeling is permanent or if we’re both just deeply exhausted and burned out.

I’m starting counselling tomorrow (first session), because I know something has to change.

For fellow parents of multiples — especially those who went through the toddler years with twins — did your relationship survive this stage? Did things improve once the intensity of early parenting eased a bit? Any advice on how to navigate resentment, emotional distance, and burnout while raising high-needs twins?

I’d really appreciate hearing from people who’ve been through it.