u/SparklyCookiess

An ex I’ve known for 2 years came back after I got out of a relationship that honestly messed me up emotionally. I told her from the beginning I needed time to heal and wasn’t fully ready, but after a while I kinda got guilt-tripped into trying again because she was being really sweet and staying with me for weeks.

I’ll admit it was my mistake too because I genuinely thought maybe the feelings would come back and I’d be able to love her the same way again. But after some time I realized I just couldn’t force it, so I ended things honestly instead of dragging it out.

Then literally right after we break up, she adds back the ex who traumatized HER, lies about blocking them, and now it’s obvious they were probably talking the whole time 😭

At this point I can’t tell if I was a rebound, a revenge distraction, or just someone she used to feel less alone.

Do I just block and move on? Because part of me wants petty revenge but part of me feels like acting unbothered is the bigger flex

An ex I’ve known for 2 years came back after I got out of a relationship that honestly messed me up emotionally. I told her from the beginning I needed time to heal and wasn’t fully ready, but after a while I kinda got guilt-tripped into trying again because she was being really sweet and staying with me for weeks.

I’ll admit it was my mistake too because I genuinely thought maybe the feelings would come back and I’d be able to love her the same way again. But after some time I realized I just couldn’t force it, so I ended things honestly instead of dragging it out.

Then literally right after we break up, she adds back the ex who traumatized HER, lies about blocking them, and now it’s obvious they were probably talking the whole time 😭

At this point I can’t tell if I was a rebound, a revenge distraction, or just someone she used to feel less alone.

Do I just block and move on? Because part of me wants petty revenge but part of me feels like acting unbothered is the bigger flex

Update : I blocked her and her friends and that mfker she followed too, thank you for the encouragement

An ex I’ve known for 2 years came back after I got out of a relationship that honestly messed me up emotionally. I told her from the beginning I needed time to heal and wasn’t fully ready, but after a while I kinda got guilt-tripped into trying again because she was being really sweet and staying with me for weeks.

I’ll admit it was my mistake too because I genuinely thought maybe the feelings would come back and I’d be able to love her the same way again. But after some time I realized I just couldn’t force it, so I ended things honestly instead of dragging it out.

Then literally right after we break up, she adds back the ex who traumatized HER, lies about blocking them, and now it’s obvious they were probably talking the whole time 😭

At this point I can’t tell if I was a rebound, a revenge distraction, or just someone she used to feel less alone.

Do I just block and move on? Because part of me wants petty revenge but part of me feels like acting unbothered is the bigger flex