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I'm 16, and I've developed feelings for someone much older. Because of who they are and the circumstances, nothing can realistically happen, and I understand that.

I'm not asking how to "win them over." I'm trying to understand why I feel this way, how to cope with it, and how to move forward in a healthy way.

I'm hoping for thoughtful, respectful advice rather than judgment.

The situation I'd like to talk about is pretty unusual. I'm 16, and I've developed complicated feelings for someone who's much older than me and whose life circumstances make the situation impossible. I know how it sounds, and I'm not looking for validation or encouragement. I'm just trying to understand my own thoughts and emotions because they've been overwhelming me for quite a while.

I'm not necessarily looking for advice. More than anything, I just want someone who will listen, ask thoughtful questions, and help me process everything without immediately judging me.

If anyone knows of anonymous websites, apps, subreddits, or services where I could have that kind of conversation, I'd really appreciate it.

Small disclaimer: I know this isn't a typical topic, and I understand some people may have strong opinions. I'm only asking for recommendations for a safe, non-judgmental place to talk.