Is this married man interested, or am I reading too much into it?
I (late 20s F) have a close friendship with an older married man (50s M). We met through a professional setting and have known each other for a couple of years. He is warm, attentive, and often goes out of his way to spend time with me. He invites me to his home (sometimes alone), gives me personal gifts, compliments me, and shares intimate details about his life and marriage.
He has also:
· Opened my car door multiple times
· Shown me his home, his room, and personal spaces
· Shared personal photos and stories
· Offered to help me with practical things, like moving
· Told me I am his “good luck charm”
· Mentioned his wife often, sometimes in ways that feel like a shield
· Gotten uneasy or pulled back when I invited him to my space
He has never made a clear move, but his behavior feels more than friendly. He also seems afraid or conflicted at times.
I am trying to understand if this is genuine interest, or if I am overthinking. What do you think?