u/Specific_Praline_362

Thoughts?

Without a stove for a little while and looking for a decent hot plate for very basic everyday cooking (scrambling eggs, boiling a pot of pasta, so on). I've never used one. If anyone has a tried and true affordable suggestion -- preferably one I can order from Amazon or Walmart -- I'd love the advice. thank you!

I had sex with a guy named David when I was like 19. We met at a bar (where they let me drink underage but that's a story for another day). We had sex like 3 times. He was nice, it was fine, it just wasn't meant to be. We lost touch with no animosity.

Fast forward nearly 20 years later, my neighbor (who we are close to) is good friends with a girl named Katie who is married to Dave who drives her there in his truck with very dark tinted windows. For 5 or 6 years now, I've heard my neighbor reference "Katie and Dave."

Until one day I was in the convenience store by my house, behind them in line. I knew I recognized him but I waited til he touched the card reader to be sure (the guy I knew had a deformity). Holy fuck it was him. He recognized me too but just looked at me then looked away.

He's at my neighbor's house 2-3 times a week. I have no interest in talking to him, it seems he has no interest in talking to me. It's been so long ago and we're both married to other people. I feel like if I tell my husband about it, he won't believe I didn't know until now (I really didn't) or will be jealous (he shouldn't be). But if I don't tell him and it ever comes out somehow....

What do I do