u/Spiritual-Tax-7578

So i’ve seen this happen with celebrities so muchhh and i really want to discuss this with everyone. To make this easier to understand i will add charachters and give them names so no one gets confused.

John and kira are celebrities and are married. John cheats on kira with bonnie and bonnie knows hes married. Everyone starts calling bonnie a homewrecker a bitch and all kinds of names (which she is cuz why would u go for a married man). But in all of this no one really gives john even half of the hate bonnie is getting. Why? The fact that only the third party gets hate really bothers me like bad ppl exist, they will ofc try to ruin ur relationship or marriage but! Did john not know he’s married and commited? Is he a kid who got played with and lied to easily? Why did bonnie only get the hate?

I hope i made it as comprehensive as possible! Ask any questions if you did not understand what is meant with this post

So my dad passed away 7-8 years ago and ever since my mom and brother haven’t been the same.
My brother almost forced me to marry a guy i never consented to marry, i saved my life before it was too late. Now he just doesn’t let me use my dad’s salary even my mom is on his team. She saves up for him and his kids. Keep in mind im a (22f) graduated from university and just grounded at home.

Im not even allowed to go out with my own sister, i am losing all my friends because i never go out with them. My brother acts all conservative and fills up my moms brain with rubbish. I cant go to the movies, i cant go out to have dinner, i cant do anything u can think of, fuck i cant even marry the guy i love btw.

In all of this, i think my brother has a bigger secret he is hiding from everyone, because we know nothing about his life outside, we only know what he tells us. I tried going through his phone but i never found anything thta caught my attention although it would be too quick cuz he would come into the room soon before i get to anything deep in his phone, he both leaves and doesnt leave his phone around???.. idk but i feel like theres something that would explain his anger issues, his grudges and his hate.

Help me figure him out, hes too hateful and doesnt let anyone speak