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M(52) I'm done, worried about starting over
I'm 52 and I don't think I have the energy to fix a 23 year marriage. Is it worth staying for my 14 year old daughter's well-being or do I take the plunge. Financially, Ill give up half but will still be good.
No longer attracted to my spouse, we don't share the same wants and needs. I have been fighting an urge to meet someone else who I am more compatible with who I can spend the rest of my life with.
Sex is few and far between and always the same. We don't enjoy doing the same things and any dreams I have for our future she brushes off as ridiculous.
Any constructive advice appreciated.
TL;DR: I don't have energy to fix my marriage and don't think we have the same ideas for our future. Need help, is it worth staying or should I start over?
u/SprinterVanGuy — 11 hours ago