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Does anyone have the latest info on SCJ in London. Where do teach classes now? are they still mainly based in South Quay? what methods are they using to recruit now? how well are they growing? what is their doctrine like now? A member tried to recruit me a few weeks ago, using the same concepts that I used when I was a member, so I know they still use those and don't tell people that they are members of SCJ. Trying to get some insight, any info would be appreciated.

I'm a 31M I've been in a relationship with a female now for about a month. We have tried to have sex maybe 3 times now, but I'm having trouble staying hard. I get hard easily when we start kissing, touching and thinking about having sex with her, but as soon as I have to put it in - I have problems. I was nervous about getting into a relationship because I had previous heavy porn use and like other men doing the death grip. Masturbating on my own would take a while and be difficult. I also have major issues with anxiety, I get very tense in my muscles and uncomfortable when masturbating. She knows I have some issues coming from reliance on masturbation and death grip, but she does not know about the anxiety - which I'm not that comfortable talking about. Atm I've pretty much stopped watching porn and reduced masturbating mostly, planning to stop doing both completely now. I'm also working on the anxiety, but it's hard to know how much time that will take to get better. Any tips or advice?? has anyone had similar issues and been able to solve it, how long did it take?