r/MaleSexualHealth

I'm 18 and I've literally never been able to pull my foreskin back, even with baby oil or in the shower. I haven't even gotten close to half way. It's really tight and starts to hurt and feel like it'll tear if I push it more. Is this normal or should I go to a doctor? Also, I've noticed that at some point some kind of strange fleshy thing has sort of connected my foreskin to my glans in a specific area, I don't know if this is also cause for concern? It doesn't hurt or anything, but it is very odd. I first noticed it in October and originally planned to see a doctor very soon after but I've never been to a doctor about my dick before and I pussied out. I don't really know what to do about either problem, please please please jump in with any advice 🙏

I am a 20 year old male with a height of 5’11 and weigh about 185lbs. Recently i have gotten out of a relationship and have been pretty spaced out. I assumed maybe this too could have caused a bad libido. I eventually got with another girl and sex was being expected, although my libido has been crushed and I didn’t get there. I am attracted to the girl and all so i know thats not a factor. I am aware this should be my prime in terms of libido, yet I am not there. I am pretty fit, keep active, weight train 5 times out of the week and have a decent diet. I do not understand why I haven’t had any drive, and at my young age it’s especially concerning. I have not watched adult entertainment either so that should not be a factor either. I tend to drink a lot of caffeine and think that could possibly effect me. I have lacked morning wood for a while, maybe a couple months, which I hear is an indication of low testosterone which is concerning, although besides all else I think I have no other side effects of low testosterone. I have begun to question if this situation is something I should get a checkup for, or if this is an awkward phase that will pass.

What did you chase in your 20s that didnt't matter at all? the thing you wish someone warned you about.

25 year old virgin, who is striving for sex the whole day. I masturbate a lot, during my childhood, due to my fathers fear I used to masturbate quickly in washroom. That been recorded in my mind I now do whenever pussy is revealed in the porn. Can't hold more than 1 mins

I tried stop start method still it didn't work. I am so feared that am I having pme? Is my dick sensitive?

How to improve this?

I never had sex, this is my masturbation experience.

25M virgin, I started masturbation at age 15. I started masturbating by watching models/actresses on magazines. Later started watching porn. This changed my mind. Now I can't masturbate without porn. And I feel my penis is weak, even though it is hard enough. And front part is so sensitive. It is uncircumcised. I should pull back manually. I am Cummings within 1 min these days.

I used to masturbate with hard grip, but stroking just slowly, never did harshly. Many of my friends say their foreskin goes back automatically during boner.

I am not getting the state of my condition. Is my penis normal?

M31 here, i’ve been really stressed lately because of this. Not a new thing but more sexually active lately so its more of a concern now.

One liner : I cum way too early. No problems with the erection. Sometimes even during make out when my partner is just on top or vice versa during humping etc. And if i get to penetration somehow it will only be a matter of few shots. This cant be normal and what do i do about this?

So I am approaching 30 and I haven’t had sex yet. Parts of me want to loose my virginity but other parts of me want to hold on. I’m trying to find other ways to get myself off since I’m abstinent. I was wondering if anyone has experimented with the male gspot?

I definitely need help.

Thanks :)

I’m a hypersexual male, I’ve been masterbaiting for 3 years straight, multiple times a day, i recently got a girlfriend and when we’d have sexual interactions I would rarely get fully hard and sometimes not hard at all, how do I fix this, I am young and don’t have ED, do I just stop madterbaiting, should I do exercise, what should I do?

Feel free to ask what you need

I’m a 29 yr old male who keeps gooning. Idk if it’s because of my age but I’ve been very horny as of lately & would like to know if this is normal. Like I’m getting horny as I’m typing this lol. I need some answers. Also tips on gooning for future reference.

Hi I’m a 19 male and over the course of the week I’ve been feeling really off I slept with a guy about a week back and now have a lot of issues with my anus, it’s made me feel like half the man I was previously, I leave off to work on Sunday tomorrow for a while, but am in an absolute panic what to do as it’s my first time going through this. Trying to act normal and seem like everything is find is really hard any advice will be amazing

Does anyone know of something to rub on my penis to get the blood flowing to obtain an erection?

For context, i am 22M, smoke about 3-7 cigs a day,

Walk around 5k-10k steps everyday, i come under overweight category in bmi, self love about 2-3 times a week, irl action with partner ( once or twice a month)

So basically i got a raise of concerns by seeing the posts here,

1. i saw some guy saying it they have spray out in ejaculation, (mine drips like dribble down doesnt shoot out, if counted about 2-3 ml). Is this normal ?.

2. i have a single partner, my first round i go on for 20-40 mins, then here comes the issues, the 2nd round(after 2-3 mins) when am hard it goes soft sometimes midway or when am nearing to ejaculation like 70-80% done till ejaculation (which sometimes have gone from 15-20 mins), but if i take a break of 2-3 hours i can continue again (complete till ejaculation), and somtimes i can keep going for like hours (3-4) about 5-6 rounds. Am i fked ? Should i see a doctor or its kind of normal ?

3. my partner says sometimes feel it really like really really good inside her , and some times she says it doesnt feel like that one time we did. ( even at Same postion same pace same thrust) Is this a my issue or her issue ?

I am confused on how things should be normal, idk whats right or wrong 😭

Do i need to see a doctor ?

I don't want a one-size fits all prescription. I seriously want something where a real doctor reviews my situation and creates an actual protocol

Is it normal that when in erect, the shaft isn't that straight?? When im fully erect, my penis kind of rotates to the right abit. Also the top part is a bit thicker than the bottom (my friend pointed it out). Don't have any problems peeing or ejaculating. lmk if you know anything and can help, thanks!!

Getting erect and rubbing the shaft until climax has never done anything for me; I have tried several times and it just feels weird. Instead, my main method involves lying face down on my stomach on my bed, placing my hands between my crotch and the mattress, bending my half chub so it is pointing towards my feet, and kind of writhing and humping back and forth on my hands and the mattress. It definitely feels really good, and something I have been doing for ages, so I am wondering if I am alone in this regard.

Recently like a month ago i started noticing an usually low day to day horniness level, mind you just before i used to get rock hard randomly and now i never get rock hard even if im getting stimulation by videos etc, theres little to none morning wood and ive just had a dry wet dream once in the last 6 months (i had it this month because i stopped masturbating for a while) and the no fap was because i also noticed an unusual low amount of semen volume and quality which was really surprising to me, im 5’11 70kg and go to the gym almost 5 days a week and have a relatively good diet and overall body function but this was ridiculously strange for me. One more thing ive seen is that my vascularity in the gym has been really less since all this started and my pumps in workout also last much lesser and the body gives kind of a flatter look does it have any connection to this?
Any more questions that could help me more would be appreciated and im more than happy to answer any of them.
I really need your help here guys and i know you will give your best in doing so because im starting to get scared.
Thanks Alot!

Hi everyone, over the past about three years I’ve been dealing with ED that I believed was physical but after rolling everything else out by Doctor’s have finally accepted it’s mental. Im a young guy and I’ve dealt with depression since I was in my late teens. Im in my mid 20s now. Sexual attraction used to feel so innate to me but now I’ve lost that spark completely, it’s like I’ve forgotten. I’ve started therapy as of recent. Im just hoping to get some words of hope from anyone who has experienced this and recovered, and maybe any advice that helped you along the way.

Hey everyone, I’m really worried right now. It’s been 12 days after sex and my throat feels weird/kinda hurts, but only in certain positions. I can swallow food, water, and saliva normally without pain. I don’t have fever, rash, or anything else.

Could this still be HIV symptoms or does this sound like something else? Please help.