u/Square-Special1520

Hi, i just wanna know that i'm not alone in this matter. This is my first time posting here, so apologies if it's inappropriate etc. If inappropriate, please delete this post.

Anyone here who is neurodivergent, but also married to another neurodivergent, and your spouse is not really involved as a parent/spouse? They're like an absent parent/spouse, and you need to do everything alone on their behalf. even financially (optional).

Not really seeking advice, but just validation. I just wanna know if there's anyone out there here who have similar situation to me. I know logically there must be, but seeing a reply would give me the strength. Thank you.

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Edit: Thank you so much for your kind replies. Sorry that i couldnt reply to everyone, because i'm thinking of how should i reply, as your comments are precious to me. maybe i'm too overthinking 😅

Your comments resonate with me, and they're mean so much to me. It helps me gone through these past few days with a calmer mindset. Thank you so much, you're really awesome.

I never use VPN. During that CloudFlare failure situation, where CloudFlare in the whole world failed, i was trying to post a comment.

It was weird, the button didnt work. So i clicked it many times to post the comment. After that, when i get back into reddit later, i got perma-banned.

I cant appeal because i cant login. And my other account (this one) seem to be shadowbanned (i comment but when i logout, the comments disappear, means no one else can see it). Maybe my IP got banned? Idk.

I'm not even sure whether you can see this post, or am i allowed to even post anything. I hope somebody sees my post. I'm sad because i never try to violate anything, dont even know how to use vpn, trying my best to be polite, asking genuine questions, etc. i'm not even tech-savvy, not posting bots, etc.

Is there anyone else wrongly perma-banned because of the wideworld CloudFlare failure last year?

At least it will feel better to hear from people who have the same problem as me, or any kind words. Heck, i just hope someone can see my post, a real person, even a moderator. Thank you.