u/SquigglyAngle

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AITAH for getting mad at my girlfriend for coming home late?

My girlfriend (F20) and I (M20) have been in a long distance relationship for about 2.5 years. Admittedly, we are in a bit of a rocky patch right now, but are trying to work things out. Recently, she has began studying for her exams, and says that she needs to be outside the house to do so. I am completely fine with this, however, she goes home at around 2 AM. Even if she sends updates, I still get worried because I know how sketchy her neighborhood is (For context she tells me that she notices people following or staring at her, especially due to her small build). I expressed my disappointment at her for doing so, but she said that I was just taking her happiness away from her after being productive outside the whole day, and that I was always being critical of her decisions. We have not talked in a few days and want to know what to think.

EDIT: I just want to clarify that she has expressed to me wishing I was more protective/controlling of her (which I personally dont understand too much) because it makes her feel safe and cared for.

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u/SquigglyAngle — 9 hours ago