Should my neice call me Captain?

I proposed the gender-neutral Captain to my expecting siblings as an alternative to aunt or uncle. It's a fun gender-neutral title that can be easily shortened for babies. I was surprised by their hesitant response.

First, they were worried about a kid talking about their "Captain" and that needing explanation. Any title I pick would need explanation to strangers. I'm used to my existence necessitating explanation.

They were also worried about appropriating a real title of authority. But to me, "Captain" is pretty meaningless in American culture; Wikipedia lists 19 roles it can refer to, and they missed store manager at Trader Joe's.

I'm open to other ideas, but I don't like inventing new words and all the portmanteaus make me gag. Yes, that's pretty limiting; that's why I liked Captain. My siblings said we can talk about it another time, but should I stick to my guns? What do we think?

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u/StefanEats — 4 days ago

Running for a Larger Party?

Hail and well-met!

I'm starting this tomorrow for some coworkers. Those coworkers told some of their coworkers and the party ended up ballooning to 6 people, not including me. Anyone got advice on how to go about running for a larger party?

For characters... two players are veterans who can read character sheets. I could use pregens, but then they don't get a nice place for all the cards. Are there unofficial class boards I can print?

What I'm worried about is the noise level, and quieter folk retreating to silence rather than competing to participate. This being a more social issue, I don't expect to have solutions by tomorrow. But I worry about it considering this is most people's first impression of D&D. Any tips welcome!

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u/StefanEats — 13 days ago
▲ 83 r/papermini+1 crossposts

I've been getting really into paper minis for my games, but I couldn't find one of Warduke. So I made my own using this photo as a base.

I hue-shifted the green reflections, painted over the joint gaps, enlarged his helmet, added glowing eyes, and blasted the colors way up so it all reads at 2-inch scale. Then I printed and cut it with my Silhouette. Being an amateur/perfectionist, it took hours of fine-tuning and honestly I'm still not completely satisfied. But that didn't matter when my players saw him and immediately knew they were in over their heads.

Not sure if I'll do many more custom paper minis since it was a lot of tedum, but I'm expecting the next one I do will be much quicker now that I've got one under my belt.

u/StefanEats — 4 months ago