Should my neice call me Captain?
I proposed the gender-neutral Captain to my expecting siblings as an alternative to aunt or uncle. It's a fun gender-neutral title that can be easily shortened for babies. I was surprised by their hesitant response.
First, they were worried about a kid talking about their "Captain" and that needing explanation. Any title I pick would need explanation to strangers. I'm used to my existence necessitating explanation.
They were also worried about appropriating a real title of authority. But to me, "Captain" is pretty meaningless in American culture; Wikipedia lists 19 roles it can refer to, and they missed store manager at Trader Joe's.
I'm open to other ideas, but I don't like inventing new words and all the portmanteaus make me gag. Yes, that's pretty limiting; that's why I liked Captain. My siblings said we can talk about it another time, but should I stick to my guns? What do we think?