u/Still-Machine5084

Guys, let’s be brutally honest....

Today’s women are addicted to attention like never before. Instagram, reels, stories, DMss it has become their main source of validation. They post photoss, poses, and “deep” captions not for fun, but to collect likes, comments, and thirsty messages from random guys. That dopamine hit has become more important to many of them than real-life relationships.

You can clearly see the pattern:

• When you give them constant attention and chase → they become cold, take you for granted, and reply dry.
• When you completely stop and go silent → suddenly they notice and start reaching out, asking “why are you ignoring me?”..lol

This is not love or genuine interest. This is attention addiction. Once they get their daily fix from dozens of guys online, they don’t value attention from one man anymore.

The smartest thing any man can do right now:

I have quit my socials before 5 years, god its been such a relief, now a days its simp epidemic.

Completely ignore it. Stop chasing.

I have to get this off my chest because no one else is saying it.

After you have a kiid, a lot of wives just... switch off. Emotionally....

The same woman who couldn’t keep her hands off you suddenly has “no time”, “not feeling well”, or is always busy with her parents and the baby.

You calll every day trying to check on her, and she barely gives you two minutes. But the moment you stop calling for a couple of days, she immediately messages asking why you’ve gone silent.

We’re supposed to like go to work, provide, hit the gym, stay strong but the second we show we need some emotional support or intimacy from our own wife, we’re made to feel like a burden.

I’m not saying all women are like this. But this pattern is way too common, especially in love marriages. The same girl who ran away with you for “true love” seems to lose all interest the moment the baby arrives. Some even does this before baby! wth is happening?

Society only talks about women’s mental health after delivery. Nobody talks about the husband sitting alone in another city, feeling emotionally abandoned and sexually rejected, slowly dying inside while pretending everything is okay.

If you’re a new father feeling neglected, unwanted, and lonely in your marriage this is for you. Wanting your wife’s attention and affection doesn’t make you weak. Your mental health matters too.

Let’s stop suffering in silence

I have to get this off my chest because no one else is saying it.

After you have a kid, a lot of wives just... switch off. Emotionally....

The same woman who couldn’t keep her hands off you suddenly has “no time”, “not feeling well”, or is always busy with her parents and the baby.

You call every day trying to check on her, and she barely gives you two minutes. But the moment you stop calling for a couple of days, she immediately messages asking why you’ve gone silent.

We’re supposed to like go to work, provide, hit the gym, stay strong but the second we show we need some emotional support or intimacy from our own wife, we’re made to feel like a burden.

I’m not saying all women are like this. But this pattern is way too common, especially in love marriages. The same girl who ran away with you for “true love” seems to lose all interest the moment the baby arrives. Some even does this before baby! wth is happening?

Society only talks about women’s mental health after delivery. Nobody talks about the husband sitting alone in another city, feeling emotionally abandoned and sexually rejected, slowly dying inside while pretending everything is okay.

If you’re a new father feeling neglected, unwanted, and lonely in your marriage this is for you. Wanting your wife’s attention and affection doesn’t make you weak. Your mental health matters too.

Let’s stop suffering in silence.