Need guidance on AM
Hi, I am a cloud engineer and im currently 26 yrs old. Family members have started discussing that you should start looking for a partner as the AM route takes time. I have decided to start looking next year ie 2027, my salary is below 10 LPA, and I work in a tier-2 city away from my family. I don’t have any financial dependency of my family and I spend and save my salary for myself only.
One thing that has got my attention is that in matrimony apps like shaadi / Bhaarat Matrimony or JS the other side is always looking for someone perfect, as if that human is perfect without any flaws.
Also I want to know your opinion on how to filter out the people who are never transparent about anything, if Im looking for a partner I will want her to be fully transparent with me, if something comes up in future and idk about that then it definitely puts a dent on trust level. Also i think communication between partners is the key to solve many marriage problems as instead of talking to your partner people rely on their family side to solve the problem which in turn creates a bigger mess.