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Tips to reduce stutter

Hello everyone I'm 21(F) I used to stutter alott in my childhood and then I got a therapy just for one month then it got better but still till now I stutter when I'm ANGRY, I'm being reactive or emotional, speaking fastly or some sounds like R P its embarrassing...

My name starts with R sometimes I struggle to say even my name this doesn't happen every single time ...

Sometimes I will say my name confidently without stutter

95 percent of the time I speak normally with ZERO stutter but when I'm meeting new people or if I've developed dear of any word then it's really a problem

Give me recommendations for any exercises or practices to do at home

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u/Stock_Cry2377 — 2 days ago

Over controlling parents

Hey everyone I'm 22(F) and still my mom tells me what to wear and what not ,what to buy because she says that I've a bad choice in fashion her choice is better she would start scolding and yelling at the shop during shopping bec I'm buying what I like "this colour isn't fine this dress isn't good "

Everytime she has to say something always in a loud yelling voice like for offering prayers... she would insult and scold me atleast twice a day but expects me to act normal then she would say things like mujhy maaf krdo tum bat nahi manti she'll forcefully kiss and hug me after giving DAILY DOZE

You're not social ,talkative like that cousin you're not this you're not that .. now how can I change my entire personality just to seek her approval she'll never be happy with me no matter what

From childhood she has been like that she'll beat me then the next moment she'd be trying to hug me..but now I try to REBEL a little bit this makes her very angry I'm a girl so I've no choice and control over my life ...she gave me such over controlling environment from the start that now I don't know how to proper function in this society how to make decisions how to act socially I've tried thousands of time to make her understand but all in vain

I just want to live fully and if I say anything then I'm the bad one and yelling and screaming starts as usual..I'll get married in a year or two I'll try my best to make marriage work and try not to disturb them ...being child of failed and emotionally unstable parents ,makes your life miserable..

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u/Stock_Cry2377 — 18 days ago

What to do 😭

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Guys I'm 22 (F) I met a guy last year we had good friendships like gossips etc for few months then we had on and off scenes fights misunderstandings etc he had some red flags like he STALKED me and did some weird things that's a long story.. and he used to say that he likes me but i don't have romantic feelings for him

Now I'm nikkahfied and he said he wants to stay as a "friend " also i miss gossips with him like telling him my routine sharing problems etc i had good friendship with him .. but I'm confused should I stay as a friend with him after NIKKAH also that he had feelings for me don't know it was real or not

After blocking him now I'm feeling guilty that now I don't get to talk to him and kinda miss that time 🙃 and did i hurt him by rejecting him many times 😔

But I think that is it cheating or unfair to my husband...

And obv when he'll get married our friendship will fade as time passes..and he said even after his marriage he'll talk to me no matter what.. and after getting rejected by me so so many times he still approached me 🙂

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u/Stock_Cry2377 — 1 month ago

Stay at home girls

Hy guys I'm 24 (F) and I've completed graduation so now I just stay at home and life is so boring, I can't do typical jobs due to my family i wonder what other girls do all day who don't have jobs (by choice), completed their education like sometimes it's really depressing because college uni it gave us a routine a structure to follow but now ...

No direction, I know girls have hobbies like shopping and hanging out with friends but what next ?? Or bs yahi ke kuch time bad shadi ho jaye gi or phr sari life aisy hi ..like this is so depressing

What you girls think about it ? I'm one of those girls who don't have responsibility of house chores like girls from upper class they don't do chores that much..but still it's frustrating ..

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u/Stock_Cry2377 — 2 months ago