u/Strawbs_deer

I fear being online is a mistake. My life is so good, im having fun with friends and accomplishing a lot irl. I get interested in this mbti funny business, cause i think the cognitive aspects are cool. Then I go online for discussion, and it just reeks man. I'm glad that theres some nice people! but in general................

Do yall get what i mean. Its kind of expected for the internet but my god is it bad when you say "hey guys im estj"

Cognitively im an estj but i dont fw the stereotype that much cause its so... genuinely outrageous

Do you guys feel the same way? Do people treat you like this? This was a culture shock for me cause i speak the same way i would if i were face to face with someone

Hi so I'm an estj & I have a couple of intj friends. I dont really know what to say to them a lot of the time, I want to be closer and talk to them more.

I ask them about their interests, goals, and do activities together. Sometimes I share what I'm up to. but I kind of have a hard time trying to talk to them otherwise? Or regularly? I also find it hard to get them to hang out with me in person 😭

What do you guys recommend that I do? Is there something I don't understand that you could explain to me?